The chains or straps can be pulled up out of the way, and the sling can be taken down and stowed, but the eye bolts remain. You’ve put eye bolts in the ceiling and hung straps or chains from them for the express purpose of keeping a sling there. Play nice, boys.Ī permanent sling is a commitment. You don’t need all of them - some items on this list are catered to certain fetishes over others - but you’ll absolutely see some essentials here that everyone should have. Want to create one? Here are my suggestions for the basic tools. They’re spaces that let you fully be what you are. Sex dungeons facilitate this crossover, this journey of self. You’re a sadistic fist pig, skilled rope bunny, or spoiled brat in need of discipline. When you enter, you’re Sir or slave or Master or dog. When you leave the dungeon, you’re David with a vintage comic book collection and an affinity for Asian cuisine. And I think it’s healthy to do so - for the same reason I think it’s healthy to come out of submission and dominance, out of kink and fetish play, at regular intervals, like coming up for air. We like to dedicate that part of our lives to its own space, removed from the comforts of regular living.
Anywhere can be a dungeon if you’re willing to forgo polite family visits, but few people want to eat and watch TV on the furniture where someone gets fisted or flogged.